Grandparents Get Involved
- Ideas for Grandparents
Create an Heirloom Catalogue
from A Grandpa's Notebook
by Meyer Moldeven
Family treasures are passed
along from generation to generation. In
time, they acquire the venerable aura of heirlooms.
The passage of years
transforms them into antiques that are honored
in the family's lore and
traditions.
You have several, you say? Heirlooms? Where? And
antiques too?
Squirreled away, at the moment, in your cellar,
attic, or garage, or proudly
displayed in your den or sewing room, the ancient
objects eventual
departure for elsewhere is inevitable. They have
survived one house
cleaning after another and denied candidacy for
garage sales and flea
markets. Some are treasures from previous generations,
or the product
of your own hands and, without doubt, they belong
to posterity. OK, so
this or that artifact doesn't have museum value;
it could still be of
enduring interest to your family and to the progeny
of your progeny's
progeny, even unto the xth generation. Who's to
say?
The heirloom, or heirloom-to-be, might be a brooch
or wedding dress
great-grandma wore, or a long ago foot-pedaling
or hand-turning sewing
machine. It might be a delicate tea set, a venerable
book of sheet music
your grandpa's great-grandma brought with her from
the old country, a
1920s typewriter on its original stand, a set of
ancient but still usable
wood carving tools, a widget that the inventor
(your Grandpa!) was
certain would be a technological breakthrough,
or, you name it.
And that may be the problem. You might be able
to name it but how
much do you know about it. If you made it, usually
no problem, but if
it's from a past generation, it may not be that
simple. Generally, our
forebears gave little thought, if any, to an intergenerational
communication that would accompany one of their
possessions into the
future. To the original owner, the Thing might
have been for everyday
use around the house, barn, shop, wherever. Nevertheless,
such Things
do acquire uniqueness over time, and even if no
longer of practical use,
they represent an individual's, a family's, or
a community's history and
perhaps, grandeur.
Cataloging an heirloom rediscovers and records
the past and, through the
memories of you and others, builds another bridge
from the past to the
present. Family history and tradition are enhanced
by facts that emerge
in what you can recall from way back when.
Elements to consider in cataloging an heirloom:
The Thing:
What it is, and what it's made of.
Look at and feel the
watchamacallit if it lets you. Record what you
see, feel, smell, hear, taste
(watch that last one), and otherwise sense. If
possible, sketch or
photograph the Thing.
Its History:
Where and when it was made; where
it's been; anecdotes,
legends, evidence of significant events in which
it was used or 'was right
there in the middle of that mess,' and the family
and community
personalities who were and are associated with
it, and in what way.
Its Use and Care:
How the original and successive
owners used it;
suggested uses for now. (Oldness is not necessarily
equated with
uselessness. Right? Right!) Conditioning or preservation:
oil it, polish it,
display it away from direct sunlight, put it to
work, coddle it, take it for a
walk, just leave it be right where it is, etc.
Many heirlooms eventually find their way into
museums, historic
societies, and community archives. Even if they
do not, preservation and
conservation are important. To slow an heirloom's
deterioration, store or
display them carefully away from harsh artificial
lights, sunlight, heat,
and dampness; inspect and restore as required,
use acid-free wrapping
paper, and just keep them out of harms way. Visit
museums and
historical societies for ideas on how to protect
and display your
heirlooms.
What you get in return is personal pleasure, and
a store of anecdotes,
history, lore and traditions for grandkids, nieces,
nephews, and nearby
and distant family whatever their ages. Photos
and sketches, along with
verbal descriptions and commentaries are constituents
of tradition and
values-and the finest kind of intergenerational
communications. |
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